What To Wear for Thanksgiving Dinner for Women
Thanksgiving dinner looms. You want to look good, feel comfortable, and avoid food baby woes. I get it. This article is your guide to Thanksgiving fashion success.
The Comfort Rule: Your Thanksgiving Mantra
Let us be real. Thanksgiving is a marathon, not a sprint. You will eat, then you will eat some more. Elastic waistbands are your friends. I learned this the hard way, trying to squeeze into skinny jeans after my aunt’s famous sweet potato casserole. Never again did I make that mistake.
Avoid Overly Restrictive Clothing
Nobody wants to feel like a sausage casing by dessert. Tight jeans or a fitted dress might seem like a good idea beforehand. Once the turkey is carved and the gravy is flowing, you will regret those choices. I always say, if you cannot comfortably sit cross-legged in it, save it for another day. My personal go-to is often a flowy dress or a wide-leg pant.
Embrace Stretchy Fabrics
Stretchy fabrics allow for movement and expansion. Think knits, jersey blends, or anything with a little spandex. They make eating seconds (or thirds) much more enjoyable. I tell everyone about my knit sweater dress, it is simply a game changer for holiday meals. It looks put-together but feels like pajamas.
Layering for Temperature Control
Thanksgiving homes are notorious for unpredictable temperatures. One minute you are roasting by the fireplace, the next you are freezing by the open door. Layers solve this problem.
Cardigans and Wraps
A stylish cardigan or a cozy wrap is perfect for adding or removing warmth. Plus, they add a touch of elegance to any outfit. I keep a pashmina in my car for just these kinds of situations. It is both practical and fashionable.
Long-Sleeved Tops
Start with a long-sleeved top as your base. This provides warmth without being too bulky. You can always peel off layers if the host turns up the heat. I personally prefer a good quality long-sleeve tee or a cashmere blend. They are breathable and comfortable.
Top Picks: Thanksgiving Outfit Ideas
Let us get to the fun part. What exactly should you wear? I have a few foolproof options you can adapt to your own style.
The Elevated Casual Look
This is my absolute favorite. It strikes that perfect balance between dressed up and laid-back.
- Flowy Blouse: Choose a blouse in a rich autumnal color like cranberry, mustard, or deep green.
- Dark Wash Jeans or Pull-On Pants: Opt for jeans with some stretch or stylish pull-on pants.
- Stylish Flats or Loafers: Comfort is key, but make them fashionable.
- Simple Jewelry: A delicate necklace or some stud earrings will complete the look.
One year, I wore a silk tunic and wide-leg trousers. I felt sophisticated but I could still partake in the after-dinner board games without feeling restricted. It was a true victory outfit.
The Cozy Chic Option
For those who prioritize warmth and comfort above all else, but still want to look presentable.
- Knit Sweater Dress: A midi-length knit dress is both comfortable and stylish.
- Thick Tights or Leggings: Layer for extra warmth.
- Ankle Boots: Choose flat or low-heeled boots for easy movement.
- Statement Scarf: Add a pop of color or texture with a chunky knit scarf.
My sister always wears some version of this, and she looks effortlessly put-together every time. She inspired me to get my own sweater dress.
The Dressy but Comfortable Ensemble
If your family tradition calls for something a bit more formal.
- Midi Skirt: A pleated or A-line midi skirt offers elegance and room to breathe.
- Fitted Sweater or Blouse: Pair it with a tucked-in sweater or a billowy blouse.
- Low Block Heels or Dressy Flats: Again, comfort over sky-high stilettos.
- Blazer or Dressy Cardigan: For an extra layer of sophistication.
I attended a very formal Thanksgiving once, and my satin midi skirt with a cashmere turtleneck was perfect. It looked high-end but I still ate plenty.
Accessorizing: The Final Touches
Accessories can elevate any outfit. They are also a great way to express your personal style.
Shoes: Comfort is Non-Negotiable
You will be standing, mingling, maybe even helping in the kitchen. Save the pointy heels for another occasion. Flats, loafers, low block heels, or stylish ankle boots are your best bets. My feet always hurt if I do not listen to this advice.
Jewelry: Keep it Simple and Elegant
A few well-chosen pieces are better than too many. Think delicate necklaces, classic stud earrings, or a chic bracelet. Avoid anything too clunky or that might get in the way while you are reaching for the gravy boat.
Belts: Proceed with Caution
A pretty belt can define your waist, but perhaps not on Thanksgiving. If you must wear one, make it a looser fit or one you can easily loosen after dinner. I have seen many women discreetly unbuckling their belts at the dinner table. It is a universal holiday struggle.
Fabric Choices: What Works Best
Certain fabrics are simply better suited for a day of feasting and family.
Cozy and forgiving:
| Fabric | Benefit for Thanksgiving |
|---|---|
| Knits | Stretchy, comfortable, warm |
| Jersey | Soft, drapes well, super forgiving |
| Cashmere | Luxurious, warm, breathable |
| Velvet | Festive, comfortable, adds texture |
I love a good velvet dress during the holidays. It is festive and surprisingly comfortable. Just remember to have a lint roller nearby.
Avoid these if possible:
| Fabric | Why to Avoid |
|---|---|
| Non-stretch denim | Too restrictive after a big meal |
| Silk (unlined) | Shows every wrinkle and potential spill |
| Linen | Wrinkles easily, can look messy |
I once wore a beautiful linen dress to Thanksgiving. By the time I stood up from dinner, it looked like I had slept in it. Lesson learned.
Practical Considerations for Thanksgiving Day
Beyond fashion, think about the practicalities of a long day with family.
Spill-Proof Your Look
Someone inevitably spills something. Gravy, cranberry sauce, wine. Choose clothes that are not too precious or that can be easily stain-treated. Darker colors are often a safer bet than light ones. My white sweater once became a canvas for mushroom gravy. It still haunts me.
Kid-Friendly Clothing
If you will be around children, consider clothes you can move in, sit on the floor in, and that will not show every sticky fingerprint. My nieces love to give sticky hugs. My velvet dress fared much better than my silk one.
Travel Comfort
If you are traveling for Thanksgiving, your outfit needs to be comfortable for the journey. A knit dress or soft pants and a loose top are ideal. You do not want to arrive feeling rumpled and restricted before the festivities even begin. I always pack a separate “travel outfit.”
FAQ
What is the best color to wear for Thanksgiving?
Autumnal colors like cranberry, mustard, deep green, burgundy, and various shades of brown or rust are popular choices. Neutrals also work well, especially when paired with festive accessories.
Should I wear heels to Thanksgiving dinner?
I would advise against high heels for comfort and practicality. Low block heels, comfortable flats, loafers, or ankle boots are much better options, allowing you to move freely and comfortably throughout the day.
How can I look stylish but still feel comfortable at Thanksgiving?
Focus on stretchy fabrics, loose-fitting silhouettes, and layering. Choose elevated casual pieces like a flowy blouse with dark-wash jeans, or a comfortable knit sweater dress. Accessories like a statement scarf or simple jewelry can add polish.
What type of pants are best for Thanksgiving dinner?
Wide-leg pants, pull-on pants with an elastic waist, or comfortable dark-wash jeans with plenty of stretch are excellent choices. They provide comfort and allow for easy movement, which you will appreciate after a big meal.
There you have it. Go forth and conquer your Thanksgiving dinner. You will look amazing and feel comfortable doing it.
